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Life gets busy
Good intentions get pushed behind work, errands, and everything urgent.
Remember the people
who matter.
Life gets busy. People still matter. Tend creates a private, realistic rhythm for reaching out.
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Tend reminderToday, 6:00 PM
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Call Mum
A gentle check-in. Fifteen minutes is enough.
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Step 1 of 4
Choose contacts from your device.
Start with five people. You can upload a larger contact export, then choose only the five you want Tend to schedule.
The human problem
Staying close should not depend on perfect memory.
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Time quietly passes
A week becomes a month before you realise how long it has been.
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Tend remembers
A private reminder appears at a time you chose and can realistically manage.
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You make the call
One small action keeps an important relationship warm.
How it works
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Export your contacts
Download your contacts from iCloud, Google, or your phone. Takes 30 seconds. Everything stays local.
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Upload to Tend
Drag the file onto the page. We parse the names in your browser: your data never touches a server.
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Choose a realistic rhythm
Tell Tend how many calls fit your week, which days work, and who should never go longer than a month without hearing from you.
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Import safely and return later
Review the exact impact, import into a separate Tend calendar, and keep the recovery files. When you meet someone new, Tend can add only that person.
The Five Calls challenge
Five people. Six weeks. One call today.
Choose five people you have been meaning to call. Tend helps you give each one a realistic place in the weeks ahead.
Schedule my five calls arrow_downward1Someone who raised you
2A friend you miss
3Someone who depends on you
4A relationship worth rebuilding
5The person already on your mind
Designed for trust
Creating reminders is only safe when undoing them is easy.
Local by default
Your contacts never leave your browser.
Names, numbers, relationship groups, and calendar contents are processed on your device. No account is required.
See the exact impact
Review series, occurrences, dates, and timezone before downloading anything.
Recovery included
Every calendar ZIP includes removal instructions, cancellation events, and a recovery manifest.
Bounded schedules
Start with six or twelve reminders. Ongoing schedules are always an explicit choice.
Calendar Recovery
Remove or repair Tend reminders with guided help.
How to export
Choose your platform for a quick guide.
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iPhone
- 1Download "My Contacts Backup" free from the App Store
- 2Open it and tap Backup
- 3Tap the share icon → Save to Files app
- 4Come back here and upload that file
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Android
- 1Open Contacts app
- 2Tap menu → Fix & Manage → Export to file
- 3Save the .vcf to your device
- 4Upload it here
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Google Contacts
- 1Go to contacts.google.com
- 2Click Export in the left sidebar
- 3Choose vCard (VCF) format
- 4Download and upload here
See how it works
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Video coming soon
A short walkthrough. No tech knowledge needed.
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Founding beta
Help us make every step feel safe.
Test Tend with five synthetic or real contacts, try the complete calendar lifecycle, and tell us where you hesitated. No email is required for feedback.
You will stop saying "we should catch up."
And actually catch up.